"Just Say It"

Ever wonder why people hold back comments? Is it the society we live in? What if you said whatever it was at the time you wanted to say it. It does not mean it has to be a negative comment, it could be a neutral or positive one. Our life span is so short and we NEVER know when our time is up so why not express who you are and leave with no regrets. Right now I would say I have many regrets about my life and my accomplishments. I would of, should of, could of moments. What if you had a "say whatever you want" party no holds bar. You say what ever has been on your mind or just pops in your brain at that moment. You can talk about things you want to do and maybe get the courage to try and do those things. I believe it has so much to do with how you were raised and the type of household you lived in. If you had a positive and nurturing up bringing than you probably have or had no problem accomplishing your goals. If it was dysfunctional then maybe it hasn't been so easy. Self confidence and self esteem are vital to who you are and what you will become. If I could, at the snap of my fingers be what I always wanted to be I would be a singing, R.N., dancer, animal rescuer and have as many homes as it would take to house ALL abused children. Off the top of my head.